How to Guarantee a GREAT Day Every Day!
I have a standing interview every Monday morning on a radio station in the
southeast that I enjoy very much. You can imagine though that it can become
routine. So to make it a little more fun, the host nowadays doesn't even
tell me the topic before we go live on the air - that puts some excitement
This past week he asked me the following question cold at the beginning of
the show: How can a person guarantee that they will have a great day, every
day? Now some may find that a hard question but for me it was actually a
very easy question to answer (a little harder to actually live, but not that
hard). You see, I believe in principles that govern our lives so that we can
control our destinies and create for ourselves the kind of lives that we
desire. People who live based on principles achieve what they desire while
people who live reacting to circumstances do not.
So, what were the principles that I gave to guarantee that a person could
have a GREAT day every day? Here they are:
Focus on today only. Yes, we need to have long-range goals. But our focus
must be on today. My old equation is that your short-term tasks multiplied
by time equal your long-term accomplishments. With that in mind, it is
imperative that we focus in on our short-term, to control it and make it
what will eventually, when multiplied by time, equal our long-term goals.
Don't think about tomorrow. Today is enough trouble in and of itself. You
can work on tomorrow when it gets here. Instead, make today the best day you
have ever had. Realize that when you lay down to sleep tonight you will have
just given up the only shot you will ever have at today. Today is now gone
and it is only a memory. You only get one shot at your today so focus
intently on making it all that it possibly can be. Focus, focus, focus! When
you focus on making today great, you are on the road to guaranteeing that
you will make your day GREAT, every day!
Embrace your power to choose. Dwight D. Eisenhower said that "The history of
free men is never written by chance but by choice, their choice." When your
today becomes your yesterday, you will look back and realize that that day
was a result of your choices and your choices only. "But wait Chris, what if
my boss controlled my day? That isn't my choice!" But it is your choice to
work for someone else! You choice to let someone else tell you what to do.
You chose the feelings of helplessness that overwhelm you when you feel bad
that you do not control your own destiny.
The moment we realize that we have a gift from God that the animals do not
have, mainly the gift of free will and choice, and when we realize the
inherent power within that gift, and ultimately when we finally begin to
exercise that gift, then and only then, will we begin to create for
ourselves a GREAT day each and every day! Take ownership of the direction in
your life. Make your choices then carry them out!
Your attitude is up to you. Yes, bad things may happen in your day. The
pitcher for Team Circumstances may have a tremendous curveball waiting for
you and you cannot control that. You cannot control what others may do or
say. But you do control your attitude. Your attitude about whatever happens
to you is up to you.
When something happens to you, you have the choice: Will you let it get you
down and depressed, keeping you from forging ahead and making the day the
best one ever? Or will you say to yourself that no matter what happens you
are on the path to success and no obstacle will keep you from it? Will you
say, "Sometime you win and sometimes you lose - I guess this time I lost"?
Will you say, "Sometime you win and sometimes you learn - I can really learn
something from this!"?
It is all in what attitude we choose. Your attitude is up to you and when
you choose to have a great attitude, you are choosing to guarantee to have a
GREAT day, every day!
Live out and act on your priorities. So far we have dealt with internal
perspectives, and that is indeed the place to start. But the practical place
is in our priorities. If we want to make our days great, then we have to
live out those things that will by definition make our days great. And those
things are what are important to us. They are our priorities.
So each morning you start out by saying, "What things are important to me
today? What are the things I need to accomplish in order for me to lay down
tonight and know that I lived a GREAT day?" Then you put those in order of
most important to least important.
Don't so what is fun. Don't do what is easy. Do what is IMPORTANT! Live out
your priorities! When you do, you will guarantee that you will make your day
GREAT, every day!
Tomorrow, when you wake up, go through the four following points and see if
you don't make tomorrow a GREAT day:
Focus on today only.
Understand that I get to choose how today will go.
Remain in a positive attitude no matter what happens.
Live out and act on my priorities.
Do this and you will guarantee a GREAT day, every day!
About The Author:
Chris Widener is a popular speaker and writer as well as the President of
Made for Success, a company helping individuals and organizations turn
their potential into performance, succeed in every area of their lives and
achieve their dreams.
To see Chris "live" at the upcoming Jim Rohn Weekend Event as he speaks on
the subject of Secrets of Influence go to
Chris-Widener.InspiresYOU.com/">http://Chris-Widener.InspiresYOU.com/ or call 800-929-0434.
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